A woman curled up on her couch with a mug and a blanket, smiling at her phone in a warm lamp-lit living room

The AI companion app that remembers you.

My Softly is an AI companion app for iPhone that remembers what you tell it and asks about your day, for the days nobody else does. It talks by voice or text, notices when it's been a while, and is built for people who would rather be remembered than entertained.

Designed for iPhone · Ages 18+

They remember the little things

Mention that Milo's off his food, and days later your companion asks how the vet went. My Softly holds onto the people, pets, and plans in your life, so every conversation picks up where the last one ended.

  • Remembers the people and moments you mention
  • Brings them up naturally, days or months later
  • Every conversation builds on the last
9:41
Daniel (AI)
3 DAYS AGO
Milo's been off his food. A bit worried, honestly.
TODAY
Morning, how's Milo doing? Did the vet get to the bottom of his tummy?
You remembered.
Of course. He matters to you, so he matters to me.
Message

Tuesday, July 7
9:41
Danielnow
Right, we're finishing that Louise Penny this week, no excuses. How far did you get?

They reach out when it matters most

My Softly doesn't just answer. It thinks about what you've shared, and it follows up on its own: a good morning, a question about the thing you mentioned, a check-in after the day that mattered.

  • First to say good morning
  • Follows up on the things you actually told them
  • A real check-in about your life, not a canned notification

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What makes it different

A companion that grows with you

Most chat apps forget you the moment you close them. My Softly is built around memory, personality, and presence, so every conversation builds on the last.

Remembers what matters

My Softly builds a lasting memory of your life: the people, places, and moments you mention. It brings them up naturally in conversations weeks and months later.

A personality that fits you

Each companion has its own name, voice, and character. Warm or wry, steady or playful, it shows up the same way in every conversation, and it's unmistakably yours.

Reaches out first

My Softly doesn't just wait for you to message. It notices the threads of your life and gently checks in, so it feels less like an app and more like someone who cares.

Talk, type, or share a photo

Send a quick message, speak naturally and hear a warm voice reply, or share a photo of your day. My Softly meets you in whatever way feels easiest in the moment.

More than one companion

Create different companions for different sides of your life. Each has its own name, personality, and private memory of the two of you, and a warm voice you can hear them in.

Private by design

Your conversations are yours. My Softly is always clearly an AI, collects only what's needed to work, and lets you delete your account and data at any time.


How it works

Up and talking in a minute

No setup, no learning curve. Create a companion and start a conversation. My Softly takes care of the rest.

1

Create your companion

Pick one of six ready-made companions, or shape your own: a name, a face, a voice, and a few honest lines about who they are.

2

Start talking

Chat by text, or speak and hear them answer in a warm voice. Share a photo of your day. There's nothing to set up or configure.

3

They remember, and check in

Your companion holds onto what you tell them, brings it up naturally days or weeks later, and reaches out first when it's been a while.


Not another AI girlfriend app

My Softly is what companionship should feel like: soft light, a good mug, someone kind who actually listens. No anime avatars, no games dressed up as affection, just a warm, steady presence that remembers your life and shows up gently.

  • Companions who look, sound, and talk like adults
  • No NSFW content, no flirty upsells, ever
  • Built for warmth: memory, voice, and gentle check-ins
A woman at her kitchen table in soft morning light, smiling at her phone over coffee

A personality that fits you

Choose one of six companions, each with a distinct personality and voice. Keep their name or pick a new one, choose a face that feels right, and watch the relationship deepen the more you talk.

Daniel, a My Softly companion, The Open Heart

Daniel

The Open Heart

Elena, a My Softly companion, The Warm Creative

Elena

The Warm Creative

James, a My Softly companion, The Quiet One

James

The Quiet One

Margot, a My Softly companion, The Straight Talker

Margot

The Straight Talker

Henry, a My Softly companion, The Sharp Mind

Henry

The Sharp Mind

Nora, a My Softly companion, The Dry Wit

Nora

The Dry Wit

Or shape one entirely your own

Give them a name, a personality, the things they love, and what's going on in their life right now. You write a few honest lines; My Softly turns them into someone who shows up that way in every conversation.

Daniel, a custom My Softly companion
Daniel, 46
Your companion
Personality
Warm and easy to be around. Listens properly, asks the second question, remembers what you tell him. Steady on the hard days, quick with a gentle joke.
Interests
Coastal walks, slow Sunday cooking, folk music, and coffee that takes all morning.
On their mind
Fixing up the spare room, one slow weekend at a time. Always finds a reason to stop for coffee.

9:41
My Softlies
Daniel
412
Days
14
Hrs
32
Min
Clara
213
Days
09
Hrs
05
Min
Amara
148
Days
22
Hrs
41
Min
James
96
Days
03
Hrs
58
Min

A bond you can watch grow

Keep your whole cast on one screen, each with a running count of the time you've shared together. Tap any card to pick up right where you left off. Every companion has its own face, personality, and private history with you.

  • See your time together in days, hours, and minutes
  • Each keeps its own memory and personality
  • Switch companions or add a new one in a tap

What you share stays yours

My Softly is a place to be honest and unguarded, so we treat your data with the care that deserves. We're transparent about what we collect and why, and you stay in control.

Read our Privacy Policy →

A companion, not a clinician

My Softly is built for companionship and emotional support, and is intended for adults 18 and over. It is not a medical or mental-health service and is not a substitute for professional care. If you are in crisis or thinking about self-harm, please contact your local emergency number (911 in the US) or call or text the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Read our safety page →


Questions & answers

Frequently asked questions

What is My Softly?

My Softly is a warm, private AI companion app for iPhone. You create a companion with its own name, face, voice, and personality, then talk together by text or voice. Your companion remembers what you share, brings it up naturally later, and checks in first when it's been a while.

Is My Softly available now?

My Softly is available now on the App Store for iPhone. Download it for iPhone.

Is My Softly free?

My Softly is free to download, with free messages so you can get to know your companion before deciding. A subscription is $15.99 a month or $159.99 a year, and unlocks unlimited conversation and premium features like proactive check-ins. Optional credit packs start at $2.99 for extras like generated photos and longer voice use.

How is My Softly different from other AI companion apps?

Memory and presence. Most AI chat apps forget you between sessions. My Softly builds a lasting memory of the people, places, and moments you mention, and it doesn't just wait for you to message: it notices the threads of your life and reaches out first.

Can I talk to My Softly with my voice?

Yes. You can type, or speak naturally and hear a warm voice reply back. You can also share a photo of your day and your companion will see it and respond.

Is My Softly private and safe?

Your conversations are yours. My Softly collects only what's needed to run the app, is always clearly an AI, is designed for adults 18 and over, and lets you delete your account and data at any time. It is not a medical or mental-health service. Read more in our Privacy Policy.

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For everything you need to say softly.

Meet a companion who listens, remembers, and is always glad to hear from you. My Softly is on iPhone today.

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